For the moments
you can't start.

Thawnest is a rescue button for ADHD task paralysis and rejection-sensitive dysphoria. Press it when you're frozen. We'll take 90 seconds to get you moving.

Tap when you can't start · 90 seconds
Built with adults with ADHDNot therapy, not a habit trackerNo clinical claims
The problem we built for
"I know what needs to be done. I want to do it. But somehow I still cannot start."
— the phrase we've heard from nearly every beta user, almost verbatim

You're not lazy. You're not broken. You're experiencing something researchers call task paralysis — the executive-function freeze that sits between intention and action — or rejection-sensitive dysphoria, the 2-to-72-hour flood of shame or rage after a perceived slight.

98%

of adults with ADHD experience rejection-sensitive dysphoria — the RSD spike that a weekly therapy appointment can't reach in time.

366M

adults live with ADHD symptoms globally. Adult-onset diagnosis in women is up 344% in the last decade alone.

Every tool you've tried assumes you can start.
That's the thing that isn't working.
How it works

90 seconds from frozen to first move.

The rescue flow is built for the crisis moment — not the weekly review. It works offline, on your home screen, with biometric unlock so you never have to type a password at 2 a.m.

01

Press the button.

One tap from your home screen. No sign-in mid-crisis — biometric unlock takes you straight to the flow.

< 1 second
02

Answer three questions.

Cognitive freeze, decision freeze, or sensory overload — we route you to the protocol your brain needs right now.

20 seconds
03

Get the smallest first step.

Not "clean your kitchen." Something like: stand up, walk to the sink, turn on the tap. The step is tiny on purpose.

90 seconds
04

Slide into a body-double room.

Optional. 25 silent minutes of co-working with another Thawnest member. No talking, no pressure. Just presence.

25 minutes
RSD First-Aid

For the 2 a.m. spiral, not the weekly appointment.

Because the post-Slack-message rumination is a different problem. Because by the time your therapist has time, the wave is over and the damage is done.

  • The 60-minute urge-surfing timer

    A full-screen timer holds the space between you and the reactive message. By the time it ends, the urge has almost always passed.

  • The three-R protocol

    Reassure, reframe, reality-check — adapted from Dodson's clinical framework, delivered as a conversation, not a worksheet.

  • The Drafts Vault

    Write the reactive email. Save it. Thawnest holds it for 24 hours before you can review and send. 60% of users don't send it.

Drafts Vault2
On hold,
22:59:59remaining
Thawnest will let you re-read and choose tomorrow.
TO: MarcusRE: Review
I can't believe you'd question me like that in front of the whole team. Honestly, it felt deliberate and I'm seriously considering—
TO: MomText
I'm not coming to Sunday dinner. I know exactly what you meant when you said—
42m left
Your pattern

Personalized insights, not generic advice.

Every rescue is a data point. Over time, Thawnest learns when your freezes happen, what triggers them, what breaks them — and surfaces correlations you'd never catch alone.

Your data never leaves your account. We don't train models on it. One tap to export. One tap to delete everything, forever.

This week's insight
Your RSD episodes drop 41% on days you sleep more than 7 hours, and spike 2.4× on days with back-to-back meetings.
Freeze frequency, last 14 weeks
14 weeks agoThis week
How we're different

Built for the crisis moment.

Thawnest doesn't compete with your therapist, your medication, or your to-do list. It fills the gap they can't — the minute-to-minute, not the week-to-week.

Finch, Habitica
Habit trackers. Assume you can start. Useless during the actual paralysis episode.
BetterHelp, Talkspace
Weekly cadence. The RSD spike is over in four hours — your next session is in six days.
Calm, Headspace
Generic mindfulness. No ADHD-tuning, no body doubling, no RSD reframe script.
Focusmate
Requires you to be functional enough to schedule — the exact thing a paralyzed brain can't do.
Thawnest
Two taps from frozen to first step. Drop-in body-double rooms. RSD first-aid. All at the moment of need.
Pricing

Honest pricing. Cancel anytime.

No dark patterns. No 7-day trial that auto-charges. No "free" tier that's actually useless.

Free
For trying Thawnest. Costs nothing, works forever.
$0
forever
  • 3 rescues per week
  • Basic journal
  • Crisis-line quick-dial
Most users
Core
For the freeze that keeps coming back.
$9.99
per month
or $79/year — save $41
  • Unlimited rescues
  • Body-double rooms
  • Pattern dashboard + weekly insights
  • Drafts Vault
  • RSD First-Aid protocols
  • Full offline mode
Questions

Everything you might want to ask.

No — and we say this clearly on purpose. Thawnest is built to work between appointments and alongside the medication your prescriber has put you on. It fills the minute-to-minute gap that weekly therapy and pharmacological care can't reach. If you're not in treatment yet, Thawnest can help you cope while you find a provider, but it's not a substitute for one.

Encrypted at rest and in transit. Yours only. One tap to export everything as JSON or CSV. One tap to delete everything, permanently, with no "we'll keep it for 30 days just in case" fine print. We do not sell data. We do not share with advertisers. We do not train models on your content. Ever.

You can try Thawnest Core free for 7 days — no credit card required. Create a free account and tap "Try it free for 7 days, no card" from the paywall to unlock everything in Core for a week so you can decide if it fits before you ever hand over payment details. After the trial, the free tier (3 rescues per week, Basic journal, Crisis quick-dial) keeps working forever.

Yes. The rescue flow works offline after first load. There's no social feed, no streak that breaks, no notifications unless you enable them. If the flow detects language suggesting acute crisis, it surfaces crisis-line numbers immediately — 988 in the US, Samaritans in the UK, and regionalized options worldwide.

No. Thawnest is for adults 18 and over. The research, protocols, and community are all adult-calibrated. For younger people with ADHD, the Child Mind Institute has excellent resources, and a clinician should be involved.

A small team of people who live with ADHD and RSD, built in collaboration with 150+ beta users. We're not a VC-funded burn-rate company — we're building slowly and charging fairly so we don't need to.

Next time your brain freezes,
press the button.

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